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Why Is My Bearded Dragon Still Scared of Me?

Published in Bearded Dragon Behavior 4 mins read

Your bearded dragon is likely still scared of you because this behavior is common with beardies that are stressed or reluctant to be handled. Building trust takes time and consistent, positive interactions.

Possible Reasons Your Bearded Dragon Is Scared

Bearded dragons are prey animals by nature, and fear is a natural instinct for them. Several factors can contribute to your bearded dragon's apprehension, making them scared or hesitant to interact:

  • Stress: A primary reason for fear is stress. This can stem from various sources, including an unfamiliar environment, improper enclosure conditions, or even feeling vulnerable.
  • Lack of Socialization/Handling: If a bearded dragon hasn't been handled regularly or positively from a young age, they may naturally be more wary of human interaction.
  • Negative Past Experiences: Previous rough handling, loud noises, or sudden movements can create a lasting fear response.
  • Feeling Threatened: Approaching them too quickly, from above (mimicking a predator), or grabbing them can make them feel threatened and defensive.
  • Unfamiliarity: They might not yet recognize you as a safe and beneficial presence, especially if you're a new owner or have changed routines.
  • Health Issues: An underlying illness or discomfort can make a bearded dragon more irritable, defensive, and less tolerant of handling.

How to Build Trust with Your Bearded Dragon

Building a bond with your bearded dragon requires patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement. The goal is to make interactions a positive experience, gradually teaching them that you are not a threat.

Here's a step-by-step approach:

  1. Approach Slowly and Gently: Always approach your bearded dragon's enclosure slowly. Avoid sudden movements that could startle them. Let them see you coming and understand your intentions.
  2. Consistent, Daily Handling: Regular, gentle handling is crucial. Try to handle your bearded dragon daily, even if only for short periods. This consistent exposure helps them get used to your touch and presence. Start with just a few minutes, gradually increasing the duration as they become more comfortable.
  3. Offer Treats During Handling: Create positive associations by feeding them their favorite worms or treats while you are holding them. This teaches them that handling leads to good things, reinforcing a positive experience.
  4. Spend Time Near the Enclosure: Sit or stand near their enclosure without attempting to touch them. This allows them to get accustomed to your presence, scent, and movements in a non-threatening way.
  5. Start with Short Interactions: Begin with very brief handling sessions (e.g., 5-10 minutes) and gradually increase the duration as your bearded dragon shows signs of comfort.
  6. Support Their Body Fully: When picking them up, always support their entire body, especially their belly and legs. This makes them feel secure and prevents them from feeling like they might fall.
  7. Observe Their Body Language: Pay attention to their cues. If they start to gape, puff up their beard, or try to run away, they are stressed. Respect their boundaries and try again later.
  8. Ensure Optimal Enclosure Conditions: A comfortable and secure environment reduces overall stress. Ensure their enclosure has the correct temperature gradients, UVB lighting, and hiding spots.

Signs of Stress in Bearded Dragons

Understanding your bearded dragon's body language is key to building trust. Here are some common signs of stress or fear:

Sign Description Implication
Black Bearding Their throat turns dark or completely black. Signifies stress, fear, or aggression.
Puffing Up Inflating their body to appear larger. A defensive posture to ward off perceived threats.
Gasping/Open Mouth Not always a sign of heat regulation; can indicate distress. Can be a stress response, or in severe cases, pain.
Tail Waving Rapid, short side-to-side movements of the tail. Often seen when they are agitated, stressed, or hunting.
Running Away/Hiding Attempting to escape your presence or retreating to a hide. Indicates they feel threatened and want to avoid interaction.
Glass Surfing Repeatedly scratching or climbing the glass of their enclosure. Can be a sign of boredom, stress, or wanting out.
Lethargy/Loss of Appetite Unusual inactivity or refusal to eat. Can indicate severe stress or underlying health issues.

When to Seek Veterinary Advice

If your bearded dragon's fear is accompanied by other concerning symptoms such as lethargy, significant loss of appetite, changes in stool, or unusual lumps, it's essential to consult an exotic veterinarian immediately. Sometimes, fear or aggression can be a symptom of an underlying health problem.