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Why Can't My Daughter Do the Splits?

Published in Flexibility 2 mins read

Your daughter might not be able to do the splits due to tight hip flexors and hamstring muscles, which are common limitations for many, especially dancers. Here's a more detailed breakdown:

Understanding the Limitations

The ability to perform the splits is largely dependent on the flexibility of two key muscle groups:

  • Hamstrings: These muscles run along the back of your thigh. Tight hamstrings restrict the ability to extend your leg forward in a split.
  • Hip Flexors: These muscles are located at the front of your hip. Tight hip flexors limit your ability to extend your leg backward in a split.

Factors Affecting Flexibility

Several factors can contribute to tightness in these muscle groups:

  • Genetics: Some individuals are naturally more flexible than others.
  • Activity Level: A sedentary lifestyle or lack of targeted stretching can lead to muscle tightness.
  • Age: Flexibility tends to decrease with age.
  • Training: Inadequate or improper stretching techniques can also hinder flexibility.

How to Improve Flexibility

Here's a practical approach to help improve flexibility for the splits:

  1. Targeted Stretching: Focus on specific stretches for hip flexors and hamstrings.
    • Hamstring Stretches:
      • Seated hamstring stretches
      • Standing toe touches
      • Lying hamstring stretch with a strap
    • Hip Flexor Stretches:
      • Kneeling hip flexor stretch
      • Standing quad stretch
      • Pigeon pose variations
  2. Consistent Stretching Routine: Regular stretching is essential for progress.
  3. Proper Technique: Ensure proper alignment when stretching to avoid injury.
  4. Patience: Flexibility improvement takes time and consistency.

Importance of Alignment

As the reference points out, alignment is crucial while trying the splits. Proper form helps in effective stretching while preventing injuries. This means you need to align your hips and knees in the direction of the splits while stretching to reach your goal.


Muscle Group Issue Solution
Hamstrings Tightness restricting forward leg extension Targeted stretches: seated, standing, and lying hamstring stretches
Hip Flexors Tightness restricting backward leg extension Targeted stretches: kneeling, standing, and pigeon pose stretches
Alignment Improper form can limit progress and lead to injury Focus on correct form for effective stretching and safety


By understanding the reasons and adopting a focused stretching regime, your daughter can gradually improve her flexibility and work towards achieving the splits.