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How do I stop seeing people on social media?

Published in Social Media Management 5 mins read

To stop seeing people on social media, you have several effective methods, ranging from simply hiding their posts to completely removing them from your network or blocking them entirely. The best approach depends on how much distance you wish to create and the specific social media platform you are using.

Understanding Your Options

Social media platforms offer a suite of tools to manage your feed and interactions. These tools allow you to control who sees your content and whose content you see.

  • Unfriending/Removing Connections: Completely removes someone from your network.
  • Unfollowing/Muting: Hides posts from your feed without ending the connection.
  • Blocking: The most restrictive option, preventing all interaction and visibility between you and another user.
  • Adjusting Privacy Settings: Controls who can see your posts and profile.

Unfriending or Removing Connections

Unfriending (or removing a connection on platforms like LinkedIn) is a straightforward way to stop seeing someone's posts and to prevent them from seeing yours (unless your content is public). This action typically removes them from your list of friends or followers.

How to Unfriend Someone

The exact steps can vary slightly by platform, but a common method involves:

  1. Locating the Person's Profile: You can find their profile by searching for their name or by clicking on their name if they've recently posted.
  2. Accessing the Friends/Connection Option:
    • If the person has recently posted on your page or in your feed, you can hover your cursor over their name.
    • A word like "Friends" or "Connected" will appear. Click on this word.
    • From the dropdown menu that appears, scroll down and click on "Unfriend" or "Remove Connection."
  3. Alternative Method (Directly from Profile):
    • Navigate directly to the person's profile page.
    • Look for a button or text that indicates your connection status (e.g., "Friends," "Following," "Connected").
    • Click on this button, and a menu should appear with an option to "Unfriend," "Remove," or "Disconnect."

Impact: Once unfriended, you will no longer see their posts in your feed, and they will no longer see yours. Depending on the platform, they might still be able to send you messages or view your public profile unless further privacy settings are adjusted.

Unfollowing or Muting Content

If you want to keep someone as a friend or connection but simply don't want to see their posts, unfollowing or muting is the ideal solution.

Unfollowing

Unfollowing allows you to stop seeing a person's posts in your news feed without removing them as a friend. They typically remain unaware that you have unfollowed them.

  • What it does: Hides their content from your feed.
  • How to Unfollow:
    1. From a Post: Look for a "..." (three dots) menu in the upper right corner of one of their posts in your feed. Click it and select "Unfollow [Person's Name]."
    2. From Profile: Go to their profile. You'll usually see an option like "Following" or "Friends" with a dropdown. Click it and choose "Unfollow."

Muting or Snoozing

Muting or snoozing provides a temporary break from someone's content. This is useful for short-term breaks from specific individuals, pages, or groups.

  • What it does: Temporarily hides posts from your feed for a set period (e.g., 30 days).
  • How to Mute/Snooze: Similar to unfollowing, find the "..." menu on one of their posts in your feed and look for "Snooze [Person's Name]" or "Mute [Person's Name]" options.

Blocking for Complete Separation

Blocking is the most extreme measure and should be used when you want no further contact or visibility between yourself and another user.

  • What it does:
    • Prevents the person from seeing your profile, posts, or stories.
    • Stops them from sending you messages or friend requests.
    • Hides their content from you.
    • They will not be notified that you have blocked them.
  • How to Block:
    1. Go to the person's profile.
    2. Look for a "..." (three dots) menu or a gear/settings icon.
    3. Select the "Block" option. You may be asked to confirm your decision.

Adjusting Privacy Settings

Reviewing and adjusting your overall privacy settings can also help control who sees your content, which can indirectly reduce the number of interactions you have or the content you see.

  • Limit Audience: Change the audience for your posts (e.g., from "Public" to "Friends Only" or "Custom").
  • Profile Visibility: Control who can search for you or see certain parts of your profile.

Example: On platforms like Facebook, you can often find these settings under "Settings & Privacy" > "Privacy Checkup" or "Privacy Shortcuts." For other platforms, check their respective "Settings" or "Security and Privacy" sections.

Quick Comparison of Methods

Method Effect on Your Feed Effect on Their Feed (for your content) Connection Status Notification to User Use Case
Unfriend/Remove Stop seeing their posts Stop seeing your posts Ends the connection No direct notification Complete separation from a former friend
Unfollow Stop seeing their posts Continue seeing your posts (if they follow you) Connection remains No Don't want to see content, but want to remain friends
Mute/Snooze Temporarily stop seeing their posts (e.g., 30 days) Continue seeing your posts (if they follow you) Connection remains No Temporary break from content, without unfriending
Block Stop seeing their posts, profile, and messages Stop seeing your posts, profile, and messages Ends all interaction No Complete, permanent separation

By utilizing these tools effectively, you can tailor your social media experience to your preferences and maintain your digital well-being.